Rules of Engagement for Confrontation
How a difficult confrontation became a path toward understanding, apology, and a closer friendship.
Read blogRelationship Resources archive
Practical wisdom, preserved for the road ahead.
Explore selected blogs from more than four decades of helping people grow in their relationships with God, others, and themselves.
Browse 392 blogsDevotional series
Go deeper, one day at a time.
Short devotionals that build on each other, from Gaylyn’s devotional books and studies.
18 devotionalsHidden from Harm: Psalm 91A verse-by-verse study of the powerful promises of protection in Psalm 91, to help you trust God instead of living in fear.Explore the series 
20 devotionalsHow God Sees You and His Promises for YouDevotionals on your identity in Christ and the promises God makes to His children, with Scripture, reflection, and prayer.Explore the series 
43 devotionalsThe Names of GodShort devotionals on the names God uses for Himself in Scripture, each with a verse, reflection questions, and a prayer.Explore the series The collection
Start with what matters today.
Short, trusted reads for real conversations, demanding seasons, and lasting spiritual growth.
Showing 10 blogs
How Comfortable Are You with Confronting?
Confronting wisely and respectfully can help others and help you grow. Explore what Proverbs teaches about gentle, honest words.
Read blog
Act Contrary to Your Feelings
A biblical key to overcoming anger and resentment: act in loving ways toward the offender before your feelings change.
Read blog
Defusing a Ticking Time Bomb
Reflection and practical direction for responding wisely when someone attacks with anger.
Read blog
What Qualities Do You Need to Confront Well?
Biblical confrontation is often simply pointing out a blind spot. Reflect on the qualities you need to confront others well.
Read blog
Conflict Is Normal in Life and Ministry
Statistics on conflict among pastors and ministry workers show why learning to handle conflict well is essential.
Read blog
Jesus’ Example of Forgiveness
Even on the cross, Jesus chose to forgive. How following His example frees us from bitterness and changes our perspective.
Read blog
Are You Fighting the Right Enemy?
It’s easy to see people as the enemy. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us that our real struggle is not against flesh and blood.
Read blog
Forgive as the Lord Forgave You
Forgiveness is rarely a one-time event. How remembering how much the Lord forgave you can help you bear with others and forgive them.
Read blog
What Is Conflict?
Why conflict is inevitable, how unresolved tension spreads, and how a changed perspective can lead toward healthier resolution.
Read blog